I'm not much of a complainer. On the scale of 0 to complains-a-lot I'm probably a 1 or a 2. I know that complaining doesn't help anything, and just wastes time that could be spent fixing the problem I'm complaining about to begin with. So instead of complaining, my response usually is to just get …
Category: Cancer
Telling the Kids about Cancer
My first MRI was on a Friday, leading to a biopsy the following Monday-- so that weekend was a mess. We had close to no information other than something really scary was happening. When you don't have answers, or any guiding information it is easy to jump to conclusions, worry about worst case scenario-- which …
Hair update
Don't get to used to updates on my hair, because usually I literally spend 10 seconds on it in the mornings. It wasn't until I was in college when I learned how to tame my natural curls, tame the frizz etc etc. I started to color my hair about a year ago, but honestly the …
How to be happy when you have cancer
I'll admit that as a new mother, when people would tell me that "every moment is precious" or something like that, I'd wipe my son's projectile sneeze snot off my arm and try not to roll my eyes too hard. Some moments are just not so awesome-- and when I was tired or frustrated I …
1 week and 1 day- from surgery to home.
Well, it took me 1 week and 1 day after my surgery to get back home-- and wow is it nice to be home! I have improved every day, and just being in my own space with my family has been rejuvenating! The day before surgery I had pre-op MRI and lab testing. As part …
Top distractions so far
starting this blog... although I guess I've been writing a lot about this damn cancer, but it sure is taking some time...sending random bitmojis to my friendsWatching schitt's creek (currently somewhere in season 4). I'm making a running list of things I should watch so feel free to tell me your favorites.lunching and brunching with …
The (In)consistency of Time
I think everyone has had the experience of feeling like time is either moving so quickly or so slowly depending on what is going on. In a flash I watched my oldest go from birth to now 7 years old. But one single bedtime with a toddler can last a full eternity.... (he's still awake, …
between the busy 